Friday, October 22, 2010

This week is ultra uber draining for me! 2 papers on consecutive days! Well, glad that its over:) But theres more to come... for the next 1 month. CUIiii-ness:(

Dance and suppers are the best outlets of stress. Halloween dance is gonna be awesome! Although i admit that i have a natural talent for acting(haha), it sooooo uncomfortable to act sexxxayyy! WOOHOO!!! AHH hope i dont embarrass myself. And jiayou Ethan! Haha:D

Another awesome event of the week was the family violence symphosium held by PAVE and CSDA. It was a great time spent and I learnt alot more about trends and reasons for domestic violence and the importance of community collaboration and networking. Hehe you peeps probably wouldnt understand. Anywae, there was good food and also a lovely environment of being around social workers and other working professionals:D

On a side note, I've finally decided that i will not continue to stay in hall. I dont want to be away from home and not be aware immed of the things that happened. I dont want to be so preoccupied with hall and school activities that I cannot find time to speak to mummy. And I dont want to be sleeping so late its terrible for my health. Haiz, the only thing that is hard to part with is dance. And of course the attatchments I have formed with my many friends in RH!

And today was quite a bad start. I received some upsetting msges. Talked to sis in the afternn bout navin and her r/s. She was upset, he wasnt happy either. Hope I helped them abit, coz i see that theres more or less peace now.
My take is that when a r/s gets manipulative(when each party is overly dominant/involved in the other's life, and there is no longer private space or freedom, things will only go downhill. It is equally essential not to overlook differences in perspectives, personailities and goals because such lack of an understanding or respect for each other's decision may make things worse.
Love cannot be blind:)


Love you sis:)


Stay pretty and healthy please mum:D <333

P.s Tmr gonna singgg!
Love,
Joy

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jiamin=) out
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